How we drove toll roads for free

It is odd to find yourself in an unknown country, by your own choosing and by your own actions. What were we thinking, heading abroad to Brittany and now to Catalonia, places we’ve never been? We are now into a new gorgeous wild countryside of ravines and mountains and rivers and people and customs we don’t understand.

And do we seem to find civil unrest wherever we go? Yes. Maybe Americans just don’t know how to protest stuff. All through France for the past two weeks, we’ve been forced to deal with a large social upheaval – and we encounter it because the protestors occupy every busy intersection coming off the the tollway, with cozy fires of burning pallets and friendly roadblocks. They let everyone through – but but they want to have their say first.

And not only do they let us through, but they’ve taken over the toll booths, so about half the time, we’ve not had to pay any toll on our long roll south to Spain.

And now we are in Catalonia, where they have been agitating for independence, protesting in Barcelona and staging events even in the little town we are nearest to.

However, outside the main areas of protest, everything proceeds normally as if nothing is going on. Foreigners wouldn’t know, however, there the main areas of protest are. Well, WE DO because of Twitter. Twitter is the main communication method of protestors, so if you learn the hashtags, you can be pretty informed. Twitter has been our new best friend these past two weeks, helping us avoid certain intersections and take back roads when things seem a little too energetic for foreigners to negotiate. If you haven’t read up, here is a current article. They make it sound like it is only in Paris, but that is not the case (now I’m the reporter!).

Oh, no longer castle sitting

After much angst, we left our castle sitting post. As for what happened, I’ll limit it to: we were not compatible with the situation. We were being taken advantage of, in a mild version of serfdom.

We loved Brittany, however. The people are fiesty, the agricultural lands are rich, the trees, tall and mossy old. We especially loved the old canal, which is hundreds of kilometers long with hiking paths on both sides for the entire length. We walked it nearly every day.

It is an innovative and active recreation resource, with lots of overnight bikers, plenty of dog walkers, folks fishing and, for two months, two happy Americans.

I loved that the grass is cut and the leaves gathered by power machines pulled by giant work horses. It is an amazing and admirable program.  I hope it continues forever! Now what about us you ask?Screen Shot 2018-11-20 at 4.28.56 PM

Where to next?

We found another European house sitting gig starting in about 10 days, to take us through Christmas and into January. This one seems like it might be more mellow. (The owner says, “I just want someone staying there. No duties at all.”) Meanwhile we are roaming around staying in cheap digs.

Next post, I’ll tell you about how we’ve been directly affected by the civil unrest here in France.

 

 

 

 

 

A lady we will miss

We met someone our first day here and loved her immediately. She is around 80 years old, and when she was 50 or 60 she came from Paris, saw an old medieval house in the wild countryside and had to have it. Or, maybe it had to have her?

The countryside of western France is one of the largest rural areas we’ve ever known. Old, picturesque houses, all with slate tile roofs, dot the land around every village. There seems to be a village every few miles, and this goes on for hundreds of miles. Every green field is surrounded by old trees and great habitat.

Our friend’s roof is crooked; not because, she told us, it is old and sagging, but because it follow the outline of ancient tree that makes the beam. Centuries-old houses like this look like they were built by large hobbits.  Inside is a fireplace big enough for a family of three of those large hobbits to recline in. Outside are massive 600 year old oaks and apples trees and laurel shrubs. It is just down the hill from us and we see her on our walks.

She’s come to her country house every time she could get time off from her job as a museum curator, at the big museums in Paris.  After we met this lady, a few days later she came over with her older sister and asked us for help with the elder’s Iphone. That lead to cookies and tea, and after a week or two, we ended up giving them a ride to a nearby town. All this resulted in us getting to know each other bit.

The two sisters grew up in Normandy.  They told us they remember D-day as little girls, and were grateful for the young American men who died to liberate them. What a treasure, for us, to talk to someone who remembers such things.

I think we’ll think of our friend and her sister often, even though we’ve left the castle now. (More on that tomorrow.)

French Bread

Humans are well attuned to ways we are different, especially the negative differences.  Experiencing new cultures yields a crop of shock and disapproval.

Example: My current explorations of France have shown me that bread and hygiene have no connection here. Baguettes are handed over the counter with no bag or tissue by the same bare hands that handle the money. They are often set on the dirty counter while I pay. Then I grab up the baguettes with my dirty paws and carry them home.

I’ve been part of ex-pat groups over the years and one of the things we all is gripe about the way “they” do things. My daughter’s multi-national high school segregated themselves into compatible alliances based mostly on country of origin.

Why do humans travel then? It is just to remind ourselves how “we” do things better at home? In the end, most travelers register the negative differences, and choose to focus the delightful ones. Like: French bread is delicious. (And the cheese, butter, beer and wine…and just about everything else.)

Most ex-pats end up longing for many aspects of the countries they’ve left. International students end up appreciating the diversity of their experience. Even if we did build a sense of community around “us and them,” we all know and cherish that we are part of a bigger world-wide family, and as we grow and are encouraged by others, we come to embrace differences with joy.

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World War I Centennial

from “War Days in Brittany” Book Preface:

JUL 26 1920

TO THOSE GENEROUS AMERICANS

FROM WHOM CAME THE FINANCIAL AID AND MORAL ENCOURAGEMENT NECESSARY TO HELP US THROUGH THESE DAYS,

IS DEDICATED THIS LITTLE COLLECTION OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCES DURING THE GREAT WAR…

The book that follows is hard to read for a number of reasons (but you can try; the link is below and it is public domain). One of the reasons for me is that I am pretty ignorant of history, especially “The Great War” history.

I’m not proud of the fact that most my WWI knowledge was gleaned from the TV show Downton Abbey. However, since we are spending a few months in a chateau that played a tiny and tangential role in the war, combined with the fact that this year (this week) is the centennial of the end of the war, I have taken a bit of interest.

Here is the story from here (as I understand it).

In “our” village in western France, the men all went off to war in 1914. A lot of the war was conducted on the French/German border, further east. Throughout France, women were left to try to make ends meet. The United States did not enter the war until late, but many Americans became involved in trying to alleviate suffering with war relief efforts. Some of those Americans were influential and arranged for international trade. One product that was exported from France and Belgium (also economically ruined by the war) was lace and embroidery.

The lady of the manor in “our” chateau started a workshop in the basement for 20 women of the village to come come and make lace items for export. I’m sure I don’t have a  full understanding of this story, but it is both heartbreaking and inspiring to think of 20 young ladies, doing what they could and what they knew how to and making a contribution to some semblance of stability.  HERE THEY ARE downstairs from where I sit typing this…just outside their work room:

lace makers

I’ll honor their heartbreak and their courage today.  Every little chink of new knowledge for me about humanity’s struggle is a beam of light, reminding me that there is always a better way, and that I’d better strive for it.

November 11, is Remembrance Day and the anniversary of the day the war was declared over “at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month.” France will host dozens of world leaders this week for the centennial, including the government heads of Canada, USA, Russia, the UK, Israel and many others.

Here are a couple of links I found and skimmed for info.  WAR DAYS IN BRITTANY https://www.gutenberg.org/files/46865/46865-h/46865-h.htm and THE DELICATE WAR LACES  http://americanhistory.si.edu/blog/delicate-war-laces-world-war-i About peace and being a pacifist: http://www.brethren.org/messenger/articles/2018/remembering-remembrance-day.html

 

This is Trying

Learning a new language is hard for  folks over fifty, like me. Sometimes it feels physically painful inside my brain. Like that plaque that is building up to give me dementia someday is being pried up by a jackhammer just because I want to learn the days of the week in French. I’m not studying or being systematic, just winging it.

IMG_20181102_145322563.jpgMost of my attempts to speak in public are with one word questions. Try it tomorrow and see how you feel – walk into into a bakery and smile, say Good afternoon. And then say, “bread?” And then pay for whatever you get (it will be random), and then say, Thank you.
Tomorrow we are meeting a kind lady at a sandwich shop who might be interested in helping us with some conversational learning. Our big problem, I plan on telling her, is that we have quite a bit of vocabulary, but our pronunciation is sooo bad that we can’t make ourselves understood especially if we try stringing more than one word after the other. The French language is different than Spanish in that most of the letters in a French word are somehow just decoration. You don’t actually pronounce them. And we never know which sounds to include in a word. In Spanish, it is See and Say. Simple!

My first question will be how to pronounce all the places on the map. And hubby wants help ordering in restaurants. Oh, and he needs a haircut. The plan at the moment is: He’ll walk in the hairdressers and say “Good Afternoon” and then point to his head. See, French is easy!

We are blessed in that everyone at the markets and so forth are very nice to us and try to be helpful.

We’ve found that people all over the world are kind, especially those with any sort of handicap. Remember this when you get discouraged about the state of the “big picture” world. Kindness still makes a way.

 

 

All Saint’s Day and the Weather

Nov. 1 was a family holiday here in France – La Toussaint.  We realized something was up earlier in the week when at the supermarket – every single shopping cart had at least one pot of mums. That set us to guessing, and it didn’t take but a second to realize that it was near Halloween, and that is an offshoot of a Catholic holiday observed around the world, All Saints’ Day. Here in France families visit cemeteries together to remember and honour their deceased relatives. We visited a cemetery to see the mums and found it to be the tidiest, the most well-groomed cemetery we’ve ever seen.

The weather here in western France has been pretty nice all through October. Seems pretty typical of a low elevation, near-coast climate. The flowers still have some color, the leaves are falling from the trees, but the grass is still very green. The daytime highs are 50 and the lows 40. We are ready for some really big wind and rain storms – at least we’ve been warned they are coming. After two nice days of sun, we went made a round with the leaf blower (it is about 3/4 of a mile, so takes some time).

Hope you had a nice All Saints’ Day wherever you are – and are savoring fall!

Questions about the USA

Here are the questions we get from the French guy in our life (he is a builder). His info comes from movies and Hollywood.

What are your houses made out of? (Brick or wood?)

Aren’t all the houses in USA very grand and big?

You eat a lot of large steaks, right?

On the subject of cows, I got a lot of cred by telling him my grandpa was a cowboy.

Interesting side note: when we asked what the hunters are after (we hear shotguns every Sunday), we were told duck and – surprising to me: woodcock. I wonder if there is a season on woodcock in the US? Even more surprising to me was the the google translate app knew the word for woodcock. I had our friend say it, and immediately woodcock appears on the screen.  Oh, you MUST know the French word for woodcock? Bécasse, pronounced kind of like “because” with a French accent.

Eating It Up

The two reasons we don’t eat out more are money and, well, just…money. I was going to say “hassle” as a second reason. Because it is a little uncomfortable, ordering in another language, never being 100% certain what you’ll get. But, the food is so yummy when we do eat out, that I think if we felt like spending more money, we’d eat out OFTEN. 

Not every dish is perfect. We have been eating at a bakery we like; they make those sandwiches I was telling you about. But yesterday, we tried to order one plate of fries for two sandwiches and felt pretty sure that was what we communicated…but we got two giant plates of fries, and though they had looked great on other people’s plates, they were too soft and greasy.  I would call that our only disappointment so far.

But then again –  yesterday I had something that looked like blue cheese and tasted like horse manure. (To me!)

Our best food experiences so far have been at the seafood restaurants in the coastal town of Concarneau. The first one – we didn’t actually order or eat the great food, but we saw French people eating it! I know, I know…but we don’t know how to eat oysters, mussels and langoustines (little lobster-type things). So we ordered meal-sized salads (really good, just not adventurous) and watched everyone else. And now we feel we are almost ready to order French seafood for ourselves.

The next day, we drove up the coast and found a couple of restaurants that looked pretty standard, but Google told us that hundreds of people at eaten at them and enjoyed it. So we went to the one that had the most people. A guy next to us had the steamed mussels so we had our second lesson on those, while we ordered the Fish Plate of the Day. It was delicious!!! See you next time! (P.S. We had that time change I was waiting for today!)IMG_20181019_124436820_HDR

Geography and The Time of Day

Castle Clock
Set back the clock!

For the first time ever, I’m looking forward to the clock falling back. I usually dislike losing an hour on the end of the shortening days, but right now I’m willing to give one up. We are on the very western edge of France (which is about 600 miles wide) and in the same time zone as Poland and Macedonia – over 1,500 miles away.  (My home time zone  is about 700 miles wide.)

Being so far west in large time zone means that it doesn’t get light (now in mid-October) until 8:30, and 12-noon is still morning astronomically, not mid-day (or “midi” in French). On the other side of the time zone in Macedonia, it gets light before 7 am, and mid-day is noon!
On nice, sunny days, we are still outside on the terrace and not thinking about dinner until after 7 pm.

The days are rapidly getting shorter, of course. We are at the same longitude as Seattle. 
Time zones are meant to be convenient for business – i.e. looks good on paper. But not on the ground, here anyway.